Let us imagine for a moment that you met a woman on a Saturday night, really hit it off and exchanged numbers. You call her a couple of days later and get her voicemail. You leave her a message, now you are wondering when or if you should call her back again? After she calls you back is the simple answer. What if she doesn't call me back what should I do now? You should wait till you see her again and then do a better job of creating attraction in her so that next time she will call you back and maybe even call you first. What if I don't see her again? If you never see her again hopefully you will have moved on and forgotten her before then. When you call a woman you have shown her that you have a certain amount of interest in her. When she doesn't pick up or return your phone call she has now shown you a certain level of disinterest. Calling her again and again is only going to show that you have an even greater level of interest in her and at the same time increase her level of disinterest. Now if you do run into her again the only thing you can talk about is how you called her again and again and she never returned your phone call which isn't a good way to help build attraction in a woman, whatever chance you did have is slowly going down the drain. Yet, if you had only called once the next time you ran into her you wouldn't even have to bring up the fact that you called and instead could concentrate on building more attraction in her. If she apologizes just tell her you found someone else to go play bingo with and that it was no big deal and get back to creating attraction in her. Now she will be eager for your call and just might pick up on the first ring. |
