Everyone who has had or does have a problem with attracting women has either heard or read advice telling them that you should just be yourself. While being yourself is a great idea if you are a man who knows how to attract the type of women that you want. For men who are NOT attracting women or the type of women that they want, the truth is that you need to change yourself if you want to attract women. If you have not attracted women into your life before being yourself what makes you think that it is going to work anytime soon no matter how hard you try. The truth of the matter is you are always being yourself even if you are someone who you do not want to be. Now what some men do is act a certain way in order to attract women and then go back to being who they really are once they get the girl. In this way it is better to be you if that is what you are planning on being for the rest of your life. If you just want to get laid in life be whoever you need to be in order to get what you want from a woman. That is who you are a man who simply wants to sleep with women, there is nothing wrong with being that and part of being a man who just sleeps with women is being whoever she needs you to be and for most women that is the same thing that they look for in a man who they find attractive. If you want a long-term relationship or a more intimate relationship with a woman hen you need to change yourself into a man who knows how to attract and keep a woman by improving yourself. What you do not want to do is simply be you when you don't know how to attract or get a woman. |
