It's a tough world out there, with all the upheaval and stress wouldn't it be nice to crave for a change ...some tenderness? Sure sex is sometimes fun just being hard rough sex but sex with a little tenderness is something that just simply soothes the soul in a way that nothing else can. Tenderness can transform your regular sex fest into some serious love making and I can definitely attest to that! Tenderness doesn't have to be contrived, just let it flow naturally.

The most important factor in a tender interlude begins with eye contact. The eyes are the windows to the soul so why not open the blinds. Usually when two people have an intimate connection with each other, they can express certain emotions simply through body language and especially through an intense gaze. Keep eye contact all through your love making. Intimate tenderness can be as simple as a soft caress or a lingering kiss. Bathing your partner, brushing their hair or stroking their back are all tender moments to be savored.

Tenderness enjoyed during love play is something that can be mimicked even if it doesn't come naturally. Next time in the throes of passion, grab your partners hands as you gaze deeply into their eyes... now that's tenderness.

Take it slow, enjoy the moment. Be at peace in that particular minute with that one special someone. Practice the gift of tenderness by just kissing. Share soft gentle kisses... why rush. Try to pour all the emotion you can through the simple act of a shared caress. Tenderness can sometimes be as easy as transferring certain emotions through the act of touch. If you think it, try to feel it. Ease all the stresses in your life by sharing some tenderness.