Have you ever met someone who exudes happy? Im not talking about over-the-top-in-your-face-they-make-you-a-little-uncomfortable happy. Just truly happy. You figure they must have been born that way, had things handed to them on a silver platter, dont need to work for a living When it comes to happy people, I have a theory. These are people who know how to make specific choices regarding their thinking and behavior. They know how to CONSCIOUSLY choose to think and act in ways that result in happiness, and as a result, they are naturally fueled with energy, effortlessly. Now, I must tell you that I spent a lot of time in my life displaying false happiness, and it left me pretty drained and exhausted. Ive also spent a lot of time searching for peace and happiness (Hint: the answer isnt in eating the right food). I still focus everyday on operating from a place of peace and happiness. From my own journey and discoveries Im going to share with you 5 Ways to Happy Energy. Positive Perspective This is about the choice to see things differently. It takes focus and dedication. We are such creatures of habit, and not just in what we do but in how we think (Ever get caught up in INSISTING that you are right?) By being willing to take a different perspective, you are putting your loving adult self in charge and allowing yourself to be open to the wonderful possibilities that life has to offer you know, the different stuff than what youve always done. Happy Energy people realize that the way they think is the beginning of a process that leads to the way they live. By thinking in positive ways, they move themselves to ACT in ways that bring about their dreams and desires. Kindheartedness Happy Energy people choose to be kind and compassionate to themselves and others. They are able to give from a place of joy rather than of obligation or because of what they expect to get in return. They dont need to keep score. They also recognize that there are times when they must say No, and they do so without feeling guilty. They realize that their happiness is the RESULT of their caring behavior, not the CAUSE of it. Courage There is a lot of power in acting with courage. Happy Energy people realize that playing it safe actually makes them unhappy, so they choose to push their humanness and stretch their courageous muscles. Even though it might be difficult at the time, they trust that the payoff will be worth it, so they keep going for the new and look for ways to take beneficial risks. They also recognize that everyone in their life might not support this courageous behavior. Theyre ok with that. Happy people recognize that another's reaction is really about that other person. Receiving If you really want a change to happen in your life, you have to be able to receive it.Happy Energy people realize this and embrace when they are given something instead of poo-pooing it away (Oh, really, it was nothing.), not taking credit when it is given (I hardly did a thing; Julies really the creative one) or worse, right-out refusing (This old thing? It cost under $2.00). This goes for everything from compliments to gifts to opportunities. A Happy Energy person knows that they are worth all the good that comes their way and that by receiving good (over bad), they have more to pass on to others. Appreciation A Gratitude Attitude brings blessings. Happy Energy people often express appreciation for the everyday things in their lives the beauty of nature (something as simple as the sun), the food they eat (no use in beating yourself up about your food), all the good things ... I encourage you to make a list. Ill bet youll be surprised at how much you have that you truly appreciate. Make the list and check- in to see if you feel lighter and happier. No matter what we have going on in our lives, we always have the choice to choose happiness. I used to get so angry when I would hear things like that dont tell me to be happy, Im miserable. Then one day, things were so bad I figured I had to start somewhere, so I chose to just take 5 seconds to think about something that made me happy. I was floored by the results. You can be, too. Create true authentic happiness for yourself and watch the change in your energy 5 seconds at a time. |
